Love's confusions

Agape, eros, and the will

Seeing, improvising, and self-love

First love and after

Anxiety and the ethics of intimacy

Jealousy, perversity, and other liabilities of love

Sentimentality and the gift of the self

Lebensraum, desire, and the envy of eternity

Violence, pornography, and sadomasochism

Work and/as love

Sex, democracy, and the future of love.